The symptoms of this include: Extreme Ergophobia leads the phobic to stay away from work for many days leading to termination or demotions. They could not understand why i was acting this way, they can’t understand why am i being so afraid. It’s so hard dealing with this when no one around you can comprehend what you are going through. I don’t even fully drive by myself yet without having a full blown anxiety attack. I have a fear of pie charts. S/he is unable to express himself clearly, or cannot hear or interpret what is being said. My boyfriend works and although we live at our parents houses we are trying to save up for a house. I have had issues with work for nearly all my life. I have turned down so many interviews because I’m so scared to go in. Another thought could be, my manager may be under too much pressure and may be under stress to meet deadlines. Fear is a pretty strong force. Just thinking about it makes me nauseous and I feel like throwing up. Phobics describe feeling “foggy” or detached from reality. I do not know how to overcome that fear. I hope things come together for you hun! Everyone wants to think the worst of you (me) all of the time and not listen to my true feelings. Now I am sweating getting the unemployment, knowing this company will stop at nothing to get out of paying it. I only recently discovered this word ‘ergophobia’ because I overheard it on a quiz show whilst I was in the kitchen!! The organization will help you: 1. The next day, my aunt offered me a job and i told myself that “well maybe i should give it a shot” since i’d be working with my aunt and i thought that she can be of help whenever i need one. I am getting into a new job with known people because I studied in the same institute. A lot of people have nightmares about work because they suffer from job related stress or financial problems etc. What if the same thing happens that happened with all my previous jobs and I can’t cope? And when it comes to interviews I’m scared what if I mess up on what I say? It’s great, you work for yourself and anywhere as long as you have internet. I’m now 21, I can’t find anyone to talk to who understands, all I feel like doing is giving in. In fact, I believe everyone thinks I’m fully capable. I was hired in an Australian BPO but I experienced so much anxiety and discomfort in working and interacting with people. It IS a phobia, no doubt! 2012;8:203-215. doi:10.2147/NDT.S23317. It effects my relationship with friends and family, especially my wife and kids. Nothing will relax you more than … What if therapy doesn’t work even if I call them? Hello Everyone, And I just, can’t lose her like this. The employer was also looking at the manager's attendance at meetings by tele/webconferencing when possible instead of going in person. Take control of your anxiety in meetings to improve your work life. I do well at most jobs I have held but I feel it is killing me. Show Reader Hide Reader. I was good. Either I find study fast or get a job. What are my interests? All my friends are always guiding me to be strong but i am not that strong. Hi. My confidence was still at an all time low. It’s me! He has millionaire students because of his teachings. I always feel that I’m just lazy until I tried to google “I’m scared to go to office” and stumble upon this. Thank you for listening and sharing your life experiences and challenges! For example, the sufferer might be afraid of performing manual labor due to the fear of getting injured. I can remember struggling to answer questions on the homework that I physically knew the answer to. The last thing I want is for my children to suffer from this. Can we talk. I thought I was just lazy. Sometimes i feel really useless. My adult children think I am lazy and bullying me into finding employment and don’t believe me when I say how scared I am. I’ve had several jobs since then and only been able to keep those because everyone was down to earth friendly. I had CBT counseling. And just.. work. I almost always excel at every job and outshine co-workers, but it doesn’t help me. Is there a way you could claim some disability for a while? Others are afraid of virtually all social situations. I get so upset that I start crying and often just want to quit my job and hide at home forever. My father said I couldn’t be a doctor. A lot of successful people are average intelligence or below but have more motivational energy. I was in fact glad they fired me recently. Naturally, the phobia can be deeply debilitating as the phobic is always dependent on others for food and money and might have strained relations with loved ones. Rudaz M, Ledermann T, Margraf J, Becker ES, Craske MG. Mentioned below is the list of phobias, with their common triggers and symptoms. We all know this thinking and these strong feelings and behaviors are not good. I feel like I am having a heart attack if I don’t fight this soon i know I will be homeless soon. I am 41 and have been in and out, (mostly out), of work all my life. Also, I’m already hard of hearing. Scared out of my wits. The symptoms of this include: Feeling dizzy, nauseated, sweaty and breathless Phobics describe feeling “foggy” or detached from reality. Hi, I used to be able to work full time and multiple jobs pretty easily. She is not as intelligent or educated as I am and not as talented, but she is still intelligent. During that space of time you could go back to school and study something else that will direct you onto a different path? In general, most fear of work phobics are afraid of socializing with others. What would you do? Therapists without active groups will not be able to do behavioral therapy with you that translates to the outside world. I dread looking for a job now. Consider joining a group like Toastmasters. Problems at work. Even now as I look back on that, I think to myself, “How crazy do you have to be to pretend to do the laundry when it takes just as much effort to just do it?” My life is full of examples like that. I am now actively seeking new work, but it has been absolutely anxiety inducing. Yet there it is. I always felt like something was wrong with me. I am NOT lazy! Feeling dizzy, nauseated, sweaty and breathless. As a kid (10 to 12-ish), I wanted to be a cop. The simplest things were always hard for me. I don’t know what else to do. I’m really close to bankruptcy, medication don’t help with the insomnia, I’ve been in therapy for years. I’ve been thru numerous rough spots myself but I learned how to win, to be happy inside I’ve trained my brain to eliminate harm very quickly. My father wasn’t honest with me and only after i worked so hard he told me i couldn’t go to university. I am very friendly and gregarious but unfortunately all my mangers are very strict. What if I have headaches every day. I’ve always felt like something is wrong with me for feeling the way that I do. ", Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. So much of what you said is exactly how I feel and think. Mostly all my life I have been dealing with this stuff about working. Phobias do not have a single cause, but there are a number of associated factors. And the worst part is that I know rationally that I need to get away from them… well, my dad, not my mom. Carducci BJ. I’m ashamed of myself. I’m 24 years old, I’ll be 25 next month. Having to meet new people can sound alarms and ignite warning fires in the minds and bodies of those living with social anxiety (Extroverts Can Experience Social Anxiety, Too). Meetings can be big, scary beasts if you let them be. I’m having financial difficulties. Please keep on supporting your husband. I’m afraid to drive AND do cashiering. 4) I have a sister who makes over $80000/yr and gets raises and bonuses on top of that. That’s all you can do. I just recently quit my retail job for almost 2 months and haven’t had a job since. Face your fear to overcome it. And if I keep saying huh then I’ll eventually just pretend I understood because I don’t wanna look dumb. I work 2-3 jobs every year. Clinical depression or neurological dysfunctions- Clinically depressed individuals are more likely to suffer from deep dread about job hunting. I didn’t really know there was a name for something like this until I came across this article. It’s ridiculous at this point. Not pleasant, and yes we all know that speaking in public is a huge trigger of anxiety for many.. Here’s my reply and there’s a little exercise for you at the end if this email applies to you also. The thought of returning to any type of work and workplace completely scares me. I was getting my first job and i eat my lunch on my first day of work, i told my colleague i ate alot in the morning but in fact i do not have any appetite. I did work as a playgroup assistant for a year until the leader decided I wasn’t bouncy or loud enough. This changes everything. My life has become miserable. Very few things go wrong at this job, but I still dread going to work, especially the first day back every week, which is usually a Sunday or Monday night. Why? Now i reply to his messages even if its late night. I’ve actually applied to jobs hoping the confidence would push me through enough to get the job and function but now I’m unable to pick up phones or go outside for regular tasks. It took me a while to learn how to drive even now i still get nervous and in my mind i think I’m going to crash. Cultivating hope is the only path forward. Everything would down hill and I quit my job 2 years ago after 13 years working for them and now I’m so scared of going to another job, although I really love what I do. You can’t pay.” Back then I drew and wrote. I have a constant fear that anything I attempt I will fail at. I thought I was so weird. Then suddenly two other managers have resigned. The phobic can also try to start his/her business or look for work from home options. It is good to have a plan when you do. After 9 months of being unemployed, my family, like every good family would, started pressuring me to start working again, the pressure sucked but my desire to NOT work was too great… But then they told me I would have to go back to Brazil if I didn’t work, it was at this time that I realized that meant leaving my high school girlfriend, who I’ve been dating for three years now, behind. This has made me feel so bad about myself and I have no wish to be social with anybody. Contact JAN if you have questions about phobias and how they might affect work situations. And showing up is 50% or more of the battle. In my early 20’s I went on to have my own children. His excuse was things were “shady” and he didn’t want to be involved in things like that. I’m the only one in my family to have a college degree, yet I’m also the only one without a job. We live in the Bay Area so money coming in gets drained on bills. It just makes me sick inside. Triumph Over Shyness: Conquering Shyness and Social Anxiety. I just thought that the only solution for now is simply avoid that particular activity altogether. When I left I assumed I did an awful job and they wouldn’t call me back. I am always worried about getting insulted. Few months into my job and I dread it like anything. It’s been a discouraging and depressing experience for a couple of years for me. Substitute ‘designing’ with ‘programming’ and that’s my problem in a nutshell. Happy to find this thread. Perhaps do some online work? I am having lack of confidence. After resigning i thought that i should find a job that would really fit me and where i can be happy and comfortable to work. I am so desperate right now to get something like that. The manager pulled me to the side and asked me what was going on, why I was giving more than I should be. Well, it’s basically what I want to do as a career. The battle is mostly inside your thoughts. Please help me overcome these fears. I know the fear is irrational but the thought of even going for an interview, immediately my chest and breathing gets tighter. I am going through the exact same situation. My next job at a Pizza Hut gave me the same anxiety, but at least I stayed for 6 months. I am still always afraid to go to work, but it’s worse when I have a job where I have to interact with many people. I always dream of winning the lotto or reaching retirement which is 25 years away. I worry too much about something going wrong or having a run-in with someone who is complaining or confrontational. I know it’s really hard but it’s comforting to know that someone understand me, thank you again. However, in social phobia, the focus of fear is the social situation.1 In anthropophobia, the fear is literally of other people, regardless of the situation in which they are encountered. I have always felt like I was thick, not capable, fear of failure, fear of messing up in front of employees and being humiliated. We really share the same experience i almost cry reading your comment.. especially the family part where in “theyre very understanding but deep inside you know theyre very dissapointed.” In my case it gets worst because ive mistaken my previous career as not my passion not knowing that the career i think im passionate about is heading me in a much stressful feeling for me and my family. This “ergophobia” followed me even when i stepped out of society. And I think I have this phobia. I kept working until 2012 when I was unexpectedly called into the manager’s office and confronted by 4 other managers sitting around a large table. You’re not alone – it gets better. You don’t have to give up being a freelancer and working at home (it has a lot of benefits), you can make it more social with finding a place outside your home for couple of days/hours a week. Now I’m graduated from college, and I have limited work and volunteer experience. But I did just make an appointment with my doctor and hopefully she can point me in the right direction. Should I be looking for work when I have Ergophobia? I have two professions I can choose from and both have had work bullies basically, that have me riddled in anxiety at the thought of yet another job after my maternal leave is up. Bullying and harassment has always followed me while working. I have hormone issues too so it may be contributing since i was never as depressed until i was 15 (second year of my period). I pick up JUST fine what people mean. Social phobia, which causes extreme anxiety in social or public situations, and Agoraphobia, which is the fear of being alone in public places from which there is no easy escape. I WANT to get over this Anxiety and Depression and nearing 30 i REALLY need to get a job. I can’t pay. Fortunately, I work for a company that let’s me work from home as needed so it’s not a horrible situation. I couldn’t hear to join the conversation etc. I sort of ‘figured out’ that one specific thing that triggers my panic attacks and this only happened recently. I am 45 and suffered from this problem all my life. My mother says it’s my turn to take care of her, not otherwise. Have a to do book to write everything you need to do each day. But the same thing happened again. Secondly tell him that he must try hard to continue his job because he always have the option to quit. The best I can offer is pretend you are someone else. You could start off by going for couple of hours once a week and increase it steadily. Harper Collins; 2000. Apart from avoiding work, phobics might also turn to substance abuse, alcohol or drugs to counter the phobia. I dread having to be “on” for my coworkers and customers (unfortunately I’ve pretty much just worked customer service oriented jobs). I’ve recently been throwing up, full blown panic attacks, and don’t have the energy to complete the tasks I need to, let alone find the motivation. I wonder if there’s like a facebook group about this. I will elaborate about my situation later tonight on this thread, but basically I have been a glass cutter shop / foreman for almost 30 years, at the last place for 6 years until business got slow and they fired me two weeks ago. Because that is what would happen. I feel so scared of all this stuff. I am scared to talk to anyone about this. And I only mention this for two reasons. I can relate to everything you said above as mine started at school when I had a few of forms and applying for universities. I am so weak internally. If you remember that nothing is worth you doing something that goes against what you believe is right, then you have no more fear, and you don’t compromise. Top Tips for Managing Public Speaking Anxiety, Practicing Active Listening in Your Daily Conversations, Spotlight Effect: Not Everyone Is Looking at You, What to Know About Depression Support Groups, The Best Self-Help Strategies for Social Anxiety Disorder. I have read parts of books about performance anxiety and social anxiety, and I just don’t see how I can get beyond these things or cope enough to have a good job/life and be independent. If Toastmasters isn't an option for you, you can still brush up on your communication skills on your own. These fears and anxieties can manifest into actual physical symptoms and this phobia can even be debilitating, making completing any sort of work near impossible. This is a real condition for me – how can I prove to them it’s real and what I’m feeling is a real condition? I feel like I’m having a small panic attack or my heart skips a beat every time I hear someone mention that they got a job or they are planning to. “Often, to observers, the phobic appears normal. But everytime I launch my AutoCAD, the software I use for my major, I hesitate and start to tremble and hyperventilate. But I had these feelings with every single job. It’s even worse when my co-worker wants me to take her shifts and I have to work more than 3 days. It’s hard because I can feel people judging me. I have never worked entirely in my life and im so afraid to look for a job now. Overcoming Speaking Anxiety: Everyone, even experienced speakers, has some anxiety when speaking in front of a group of people. It’s been almost 2 years now since I quit and I’m in my mid 20s. Anyways if you read the whole thing thank you. Remember this was back in the lat 70’s and not much was known about these mental disorders then so I was too frightened to go the Dr or indeed explain to anybody about my problem. When I was in college I finally convinced myself to do some volunteer work and got a summer job once, but there was always this looming dread that overcame me every time I knew I had to go back. I just finished working for a week there and the anxiety and discomfort are still there. I also procrastinate of starting my own business from home for I fear I will not look after home and family as well. I’m not sure whether I should have just gone off sick as a Doctor signed me off sick, but due to debt I have to continue as a wage slave for the foreseeable future. Work by Thevos and colleagues (Thevos et al. I don’t think i’m Autistic or have Aspergers, i don’t have Sensory Problems, i don’t have OCD (apart from getting a bit obsessive about things but only things i feel most passionate and enthusiastic about), i like organization but in a healthy way because i don’t like to clean lol. I know I’m a fairly capable person but the thought of failure is crippling. The condition thus becomes a vicious cycle in that; the phobic might have sought help for his phobia only to be prescribed anti-anxiety medicines that indirectly enhance his phobia. I was nauseous. On the inside was a completely different matter, I was freaking out so much, crying after the workday ended. Four days after I started work, I quit. The crazy part is i haven’t told anyone of my failure at work because of embarrassment. The crummy manager didn’t give you a chance, you are in a new position and it takes time to get familiar. Every morning I get anxious to go to work and count days for the weekend. Its my first official job. I want someone to talk to. I know that. He insulted me a lot, never valued me and as a result, I started missing deadlines due to stress. I have realized that I probably have not only performance anxiety but social anxiety. I feel the exact same way. As I was reading this, I almost wanted to cry too. I WANT to work and I WANT desperately to be/feel “normal” and to make my own $ and stand on my own 2 feet BUT, I just find that I can’t shake the aversion I have to working! I am like this at social gatherings too. Fear of work phobia can affect 2 types of people: ones who have held jobs before or those who have never worked before in their life. All i know is i learn better alone. I’m miserable, I always feel like someone is out to get me for some reason or another. Now at my current job they’re all super extroverts and kind of fake imo and I hate going in. I would dread Mondays, I would wake up with stomach aches and have to go to the restroom shortly after getting to work, would take restroom breaks just to get away and I would develop migraines by lunchtime. I thought I was the only one who felt like this so it’s comforting to see others who understand. How will I communicate? Alexis, I feel the same exact way. I guess childhood bullying and family circumstances contributed to it. Reading this made me cry! Yeah, I feel like I am letting my dreams slip down the tube, because I want to avoid thinking of the avenues in which I could take this dream (out of that fear that I might give up on it). But I just can’t. I don’t think it clicked what i’d be in for at all or why i was going there or what i’d be going there for, what i’d be expected to do and the pressure. I then developed low self esteem. I was nervous when I started my first ever full time job at 17 but figured that was normal, everyone else goes to work and manages fine so surely I can too, right? Before that i did internship. My anxiety is so bad all I do is sweat so bad and my eyes are so dilated everyone thinks I am an addict I sometimes don’t know what to do I get sick. That’s the problem, since I know about them I am afraid how they are going to criticize me in every thing. Think on your … I continuously got a minimum pass or a fail for almost every assignment given. I honestly have felt like I have something wrong with me whether it be work related anxiety, social anxiety, mental illness OR I am just a lazy bones! I’ve always felt something was wrong with me, and to make it much worse, I’m constantly asked “What’s wrong with you?” Because here I am – without a job. I know there is something wrong with me and i wish i could fix it because the more time passes by, the more i can’t take the pain. What would you do if anything was possible and we lived in a world where money was not a thing anymore. These are most useful if your anxiety is not severe or you are already in treatment for SAD. But if you don’t.. then what? All my collegues support me and they admit that i am doing good. I’m so scared of having to stay 8 hours a day in front of a computer, every single day of the week, typing and typing, with no one to interact to except for a machine, and my back would ache and ache but I would not be able to leave the chair, not able to leave the work, oh no, because I need the money, the money to pay for the pills, I now take 4 of them a day, I don’t think I can take it much longer. 5th edition. Especially people my age. The first day went great, everyone was nice, I managed the day with no problems, it really made me feel positive. That was 12 years ago. Unfortunately, poor managers, bullies and just plain old unhappy or mean people are just a part of life. This wasn’t a problem until now that I’m working. Maybe I am I dont know but I dont have money and its IMPOSSIBLE to find insurance paid talk therapy in San Jose. I have a very similar background to you. You had everything you needed and could do and have anything you wished for. My name is Sam and I’m about to be 22 and have only worked a few shifts at different places. It has caused so many arguments between myself and my husband. I’m intelligent, talented, and personable, yet absolutely terrified to take on the responsibility of any significant job. NO!” is what I was told. Much luck on your journey. How Can I Manage My Social Anxiety at Work? I’ve had many traumatic experiences in a lot of jobs that increased my fear even further. This and a lot of other trades are like this also. I depend on my boyfriend a lot because I can’t really handle tasks alone. I’m unable to work due to the constant fear of future situations and reliving the trauma of the situation. If you are required to present during meetings, or simply wish to improve your skills at speaking to a group, there is no substitute for regular practice. I do feel better seeing I’m not the only one although I wish I knew someone personally who felt the same way that we could get through it together or relate on it. So how do you fix the issue? I’m also paralyzed with this fear again it stems from my total fear of socialising with people who i find i can’t relate to. Now my kids are at school and people keep asking me what I’m doing with all my ‘free time’ in a snarky tone which makes me feel great. As people with anxiety know all to well, the more time we have to think, the more time we have to worry. I don’t know why. It took me about 5 months to get a job, not because I couldn’t find one, but mostly because I didn’t want to find one, I would be fearful of the idea of working, I would make excuses and tell my family I went to an interview but couldn’t get the job because I lived too far away or something, all excuses so that I couldn’t start working… It came a time though where I couldn’t postpone it anymore, my family was getting frustrated and I had to start working. That ended when the company went bust. However, many Ergophobic individuals are also afraid of non-manual labor. Choosing and pursuing a career for a social phobic can pose significant challenges due to fear of embarrassment during interactions with others. I want to be independent and make my own money. I’m ashamed of being like this but have no energy to change and I know it’s also affecting my marriage. My husband quit a month after we were married and took what we thought would be a great opportunity in a successful startup. Washington DC; 2013. So, at 19 I started having suicide thoughts. I have found the ‘Paradoxical attitude to anxiety’ very helpful and there’s loads on the web about it. I remembered having a full blown panic attack after my dad told me he suggested working under his friend, which happened to be that activity I didn’t know I would fear: designing. My parents could not understand and would often scold and canned me to stop me from acting this way. You don’t mess with patients or customers at all. I am afraid that my life has no sense now since I don’t think I’m going to earn money that I need to live a life. However, that doesn't mean that you can't gradually improve your speaking skills so that you come across as professional and poised. I thought I was the only one. Days after, jobs were offered but then i refused them all because the fear has been consuming me. He was also verbally abusive when he got drunk and it was very bad, I became a very scared person. My wife suggested me to meditate and just focus on my breath and try to clear my head for a sec. All throughout high school while everyone around me got part-time jobs, I never got one. I also didn’t apply anymore because my excuse was that I have school and that I have to focus on that first. Then I did a secretarial course but was a useless secretary as I panicked from day 1 at the office and would screw everything up because I felt so useless. At 15 I started having anxiety problems. Anxiety At Work Meetings One of the most common times people feel anxious at work (after getting called in to see the boss) is at meetings where you are expected to speak up in front of many others. I’ve seen people online just laugh and reduce ergophobia to being lazy, but writing out my experience shows it’s not really that like even I thought it was for me. It’s killing me slowly. My family thinks that it’s normal and I’m just being lazy. It was hard for me and my father didn’t help at all. I have a mental illness with depression and anxiety. ‘I’m not good enough.’ I’ve had jobs before but I never lasted in them. I would have tension pain in my neck and shoulder for weeks at times. How can I cure this phobia? I still struggle with this phobia in public but, this is due to low self esteem. I have the same issue. They told me when no one was there. Let’s do our best to surpass this anxiety and fear. I know I need the money but I’m not sure I can handle it. I’m terribly afraid. My boss is very visual and is always tasking me to create presentations using graphs, pie charts and other visual representations of our day to day processes. Why did I become so weak and so afraid of interviews. I guess the only thing I can say is just be yourself and keep focusing on your work. “Sheesh, will you keep your feet on the ground and stop dreaming? Like what am I going to be good at? Even then I was very afraid although it required practically no skills. Wow! 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